Is It Wrong to Take a New Job When I Know I Want a Baby Soon?

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Hannah Kissel
June 9, 2026
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About the episode

In this episode, Hannah tackles a deeply relatable dilemma sent in by a listener who hates her job, wants to switch roles, but feels guilty about joining a new company while planning to get pregnant. Hannah cuts through the noise with her signature no-BS approach, reminding us that company loyalty is a two-way street, and more often than not, it only runs one way. From anti-discrimination laws to fertility timelines to the reality of mass redundancies, Hannah lays out exactly why you should never put your personal goals on hold for an organization that wouldn't think twice about making you redundant. If you're a high-performing woman navigating career transitions, family planning, or both — this one's for you.

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KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • A company's loyalty is to itself and returning a profit to shareholders, meaning it can make you redundant at any time.
  • You are not being dishonest or unfair by interviewing for a new role without disclosing that you are trying to get pregnant.
  • Getting pregnant does not mean you are debilitated, and you can still go on maternity leave after contributing a great amount to your team.
  • Putting your long-term goals on hold for an organization you do not even work for yet can have big implications on your fertility.

Timestamps:

01:15 — The listener's dilemma: hated job, family planning, and the guilt trap
02:30 — Why high performers think being "dishonest" is a personality trait
03:45 — Corporate loyalty: why it's a one-way street (and why that's okay)
05:00 — The "last in, first out" myth and the reality of redundancies
06:30 — Pregnancy is not a "debilitating" factor — debunking the bias
08:00 — You don't owe them your life plan — privacy vs. dishonesty
09:30 — Stop falling into black-and-white thinking: finding your middle ground
11:00 — Why you should quit the job you hate now
12:30 — How to identify a supportive company during the interview process
14:00 — Final advice: Prioritise yourself, or you will be trapped by their priorities

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