Dear Diary: Letting Go of the Ambition to be Extraordinary

By
Hannah Kissel
July 29, 2025
16
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In this episode of the Big F*cking Dreams podcast, Life Coach Hannah Kissel explores the tension between the desire for perfection and the acceptance of imperfection. She reflects on her personal journey of wanting to be extraordinary while grappling with the fear of being ordinary. Through her experiences and insights, she discusses the impact of childhood programming on her ambitions, the challenges of high achievement, and the phenomenon of post-achievement depression. Ultimately, she emphasizes the importance of shifting focus from exceptionalism to contentment and living a balanced life.

Hi there, I'm Hannah

Executive Coach, podcaster, speaker, writer, and builder of big f*cking Dreams. My mission? To help ambitious professionals build self-acceptance, self-trust in their careers.

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