A Beginner's Guide to Non-Violent Communication & Why You Need it in Your Career

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Hannah Kissel
July 1, 2025
14
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About the episode

In this episode of the Big F*cking Dreams podcast, Life Coach Hannah Kissel discusses the principles and applications of Nonviolent Communication (NVC), a method developed by Marshall Rosenberg. She emphasizes the importance of clear communication in both personal and professional relationships, outlining the four essential steps of NVC: observation, feeling, need, and request. Kissel shares personal anecdotes and client experiences to illustrate how NVC can transform communication styles, reduce misunderstandings, and foster stronger connections. The conversation encourages listeners to practice NVC in low-stakes environments before applying it to more challenging relationships.

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Key Takeaways:

  • Nonviolent Communication is a transformative communication method.
  • The method is endorsed by experts like Kristin Neff.
  • NVC helps retrain our thinking and emotional responses.
  • It requires awareness and vulnerability to express needs.
  • The four steps of NVC are observation, feeling, need, and request.
  • Clear observations avoid opinions and judgments.
  • Feelings should be expressed without blaming others.
  • Identifying needs is crucial for effective communication.
  • Requests must be clear, concrete, and actionable.
  • NVC can be challenging in personal relationships but is easier in professional settings.

Hi there, I'm Hannah

Executive Coach, podcaster, speaker, writer, and builder of big f*cking Dreams. My mission? To help ambitious professionals build self-acceptance, self-trust in their careers.

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