The Real Reason You Feel Overwhelmed

By
Hannah Kissel
May 5, 2026
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About the episode

Feeling overwhelmed? It's probably not what you think it is. In this raw, unscripted solo episode, Hannah shares what came out of her most recent therapy session - a realisation that stopped her in her tracks. She'd been feeling overwhelmed. Shutting down. Going full "sloth monster." And when she traced it back to the source, it wasn't burnout. It wasn't doing too much. It was the complete opposite - it was not making decisions. If you're in a season of growth where everything feels uncertain, you have ten browser tabs open in your brain, and you can't seem to pick a direction. This episode is going to land hard. The bottom line: Overwhelm isn't always about doing too much. Sometimes it's about deciding too little. Pick a direction, any direction and let the data tell you what to do next.

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KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • Sitting on decisions creates open tabs that lead directly to mental turmoil and rumination.
  • Gathering more information creates more analysis paralysis and makes you less likely to decide.
  • You must ring fence big decisions by giving yourself a strict time limit to make a choice.
  • Cap your research time so you can stop consuming information and move into execution mode.
  • Taking action provides the data you need to figure out if something is working or not working.

Timestamps:

02:00 — The window of tolerance: hyper-arousal vs. hypo-arousal explained
02:45 — Meet the "sloth monster": Hannah's hypo-arousal shutdown mode
03:30 — The root cause: overwhelm = indecision during hypergrowth
04:15 — Why being good at executing directives doesn't translate to open-ended decisions
04:45 — The "open tabs" problem and the opportunity cost of not deciding
05:30 — Real examples: evergreen vs. launch, program naming dilemmas
06:15 — The 3-step decision-making framework: ring-fence, cap research, execute
07:00 — Why more research leads to more paralysis (not better decisions)
07:45 — Perfectionism + the friend who joined the program for the same reason
08:15 — When big life decisions ARE worth more time (and when they're not)

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